9 Online Dating Guys to Avoid

New to online dating? Or not sure who’s worth a right-swipe, a nod, a wink or a message? Who’s not? Meet them here and you’ll know how to spot the 9 online dating guys to avoid. By learning the red flags to watch for from the beginning, you’ll save time and heartache (or worse) later on. When you’re in the first flush of attraction, it can be ever so easy to ignore or rationalize red flags. Don’t ignore the signs that should be setting off alarms, bells, flashing lights and sending you running for the nearest exit. The Flim-Flammer/Scammer No man looking to date you should be asking you for money or favors. No. man. Never give money to anyone you’re chatting with on a dating site or app. If a man asks you for money, stop talking to him. These predators use online dating sites to take advantage of women who are lonely for attention and looking for love. This guy will say anything to build your trust. He’ll try to make you fall for him. It’s all manipulation meant to get his hands on your hard-earned money. He needs to attend a family member’s funeral. He is late …
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How to Build a Better Relationship with Your Soul Mate

If you want to know how to buildHow to Build a Better Relationship with Your Soul Mate a better relationship with your soul mate, there are probably two things you need to know first: What is a soul mate? Is this person my soul mate? One question I get asked a lot, “is he my soul mate?” I mean, a lot. And that may be running a tie with “When is he going to call?” The term “soul mate”, while certainly open to interpretation, has in many cases come to mean “the one person with whom I am going to spend the rest of my life in blissful happiness.” There’s a well-known poem that’s been around for quite a while about people who come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. In many respects, it reflects my personal understanding of what a soul mate is. Not everyone who comes into our lives is meant to be with us for our entire lifetime. Not all relationships are soul mate relationships. Not all soul mate relationships are romantic. Our soul mates might be our parents, siblings, close friends, and others with whom we are not romantically or sexually …
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The Key to Building A Healthy Relationship When The Newness Wears Off

When a relationship is shiny-new, you’re often wearing rose-colored glasses and everything seems perfect. You may be a little nervous and anxious, but you get butterflies just thinking about your special someone. And you wonder about building a healthy relationship together. You’re almost giddy with happiness and excitement. But then, the glow fades a little, the rose-colored glasses come off, and you begin to see things you didn’t see before. You wonder, how can this relationship possibly last? Is building a healthy relationship possible? You may find yourself experiencing some or all of the following: you feel restless, resentful, or taken advantage of you’re having strong feelings of guilt and anxiety fears of abandonment and rejection are taking over your thoughts you’re saying “yes” when you really want to say “no” If you are committed to building a healthy relationship but you’re feeling and experiencing what I’ve described, you may be lacking something that can take your relationship to the next level – and the levels beyond, too. Boundaries Are Key What’s one essential key to a healthy relationship? Boundaries. Boundaries are essential to healthy relationships and a healthy life. The feelings described indicate that you lack boundaries, have weak …
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